After her husband’s brave three-year battle with small intestine cancer, Sindy Houle faced one
of the most difficult things imaginable; losing her loving husband and devoted father to their two
children.
After he passed, one of the toughest challenges for Sindy was reimagining life for her family.
Sindy was grieving the life that she and her husband dreamed, built and planned. “The process
of internalizing and accepting grief is difficult. Grief is complex. You are grieving what life was
going to be like, who you were going to be, and must accept that everything is forever changed,”
Sindy says.
Now a single mother of two, Sindy knew it was vital, now more than ever, to accept help, and
saying yes to a dropped off meal, an offer for child-care, or words of support. She is grateful for
the valuable support she received from her colleagues and many individuals from the insurance
industry. The various support systems helped her, but also her small children cope with their
loss.
The McMaster Children’s Hospital provided incredible support for the children, explaining, in
simple scientific terms and leveraging play to explain what was happening to their father. The
children now know and understand how to speak about their father’s battle against cancer. The
entire family continues their healing journey, one day at a time, rebuilding their routines and
finding comfort through connecting with families facing similar challenges. For the last 3 years,
the family has been increasingly involved in raising funds for the Canadian Cancer Society
(CCS) through Relay for Life, which brings friends and family together for an incredibly inspiring
event.
“Joining these communities helped me understand that I was not alone. There are so many
people who are in your shoes and are there to help. Their experiences provide much needed
reassurance that we were going to be okay and if we struggled, there would people willing to
help. Connecting with the people that are ‘in my club’, a club that no one wants to be a part of,
led to significant personal growth. The energy and inspiration of those who are fighting, have
fought, or are fighting for others, is incredibly inspirational,” says Sindy.
“Now, we look forward to celebrating 25 years of WICC, which is commendable. The WICC
founders must be so proud to see how far we’ve come and the impact they have had. 18 million
dollars raised… 2 voices… that turned into a movement,” she concluded.
Sindy often shares memories of her husband with their children, friends and their community.
“Don’t be afraid to talk about the loss, to speak their names. Stories bring me so much joy…and
I look forward to holding onto these memories for as long as possible.”
Sindy Houle is Sales Manager at Friss, an Insurtech based in Canada. She has also been a
longstanding supporter of WICC and now is a Communications Committee member.